from Sandy Needham

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Brazil Dispatch 23




After that eternity since November 4th, Inauguration Day found its way here via CNN International on our satellite TV. I celebrated my re-embracing of the American flag, which no longer had to stand for nastiness, by printing out a small copy and attaching it to our mail box. My TV-less American friend Mary, who had joined us on election night, brought her 10-year-old son to watch the inauguration with us. Marcos, the caretaker, carefully masking-taped the Obama poster from the US to his wall, saving a second one for his mother in the interior. There were a lot of happy people down here that day.

Things really change around here in January. The three houses surrounding us (luckily, we still have the lovely field of coconut trees across the road in front) fill up with relatives and guests for a month-long party. Loud music erupts intermittently, often after midnight. Sometimes the music is good, sometimes we marvel that some of these off-key singers ever got a recording session. I will reiterate here that some of the regional music reminds one that the Northeast of Brazil is not Rio or São Paulo. Saturday night concerts in the next town blast into our bedroom till 4:00am. The children next door arrive at 7:30am with their nannies outside our bedroom window, chanting “ga-cheen-yo, ga-cheen-yo, ga-cheen-yo” (gatinho - little cat) to aggravate a small boy, who cries often. Popsicle vendors push their carts around these blocks all day everyday (does anyone really buy those before breakfast?) with microphones and very loud speakers to interrupt any conversation one might be having in the kitchen or any pleasant thought. A boy who looks about eight has a roaring dirt bike that has gone by our house with increasing velocity and flying dust as the month has progressed. Sometimes there are five buddies miraculously perched behind him. Despite so many affronts to my indulged senses, I do find January a wonderful interlude of animation around here. The fried pastry vendor plays the same nice catchy rhythm on a triangle that all fried pastry vendors play all over Brazil. It’s nice to have the beach more crowded for a month. Someone had the broken stairs extended all the way down to the sand again. We can monitor how one weekend the staircase doesn’t quite reach exposed rock at the bottom so we must maneuver and jump to the sand, and the next weekend the last eight stairs and the railing disappear into deep banked sand. Newton has never seen a beach that changes so dramatically.The little old man with the portable grill, tables, chairs, and large beer cooler sets up above the shore rocks if the tide is high and simply serves people by casually picking his way down the crags to the sand like a waiter in a (smooth and level) restaurant. And I always look forward to the quiet, tranquil aspect of my house when it is suddenly isolated once more on February 1st. The even tinier baby hummingbird that has joined the now ‘giant’ ones flitting around our flowers, and the plant that crept 6½ feet up inside the gesso exterior wall to emerge as a deterrent to closing the bathroom window remind me of the essence of ‘animated’ in this little walled patch by the sea.

In reference to my New Year’s poem, it is time again to prune the hibiscus bush, which is almost blocking the path to our door from the gate. You tell me how hard it would be to chop these beautiful flowers off!

Anticipating the bedroom and dining room puddles once the rainy season arrives, we engaged a handy man to replace all faulty terra cotta tiles on our roof. He employed two helpers – Marcos was one of them – to work every weekday for two weeks. What we discovered after the roof negotiations was that this project automatically includes a rice and black bean and meat lunch for all of them daily. Don’t you just love that good ol' American tradition of a lunch box with a big sandwich? That is what they call a snack here. We had just hired a new two days/week maid – in the nick of time – who left the kitchen dirtier than she found it, making all that food. The third roof worker jabbered and sang against the rhythm of hammers replacing rotten beams to support the tiles - while we were sleeping. We were reminded that the sun rises at 4:30 this time of year and people get an early start. After lunch, the men napped with full -fledged snoring, one on the stone garage floor and another on a too-narrow, leaning board. I bumped my head twice on the scaffolding that greeted one first thing out the back door, but marveled for two weeks at the nimble and sure-footed Nordestinos, bounding up the scaffolding like monkeys and balancing barefoot casually along the pointed eaves of the roof while bending in half to cement new tiles along the angle.

We noticed a new establishment just a few blocks away, Zen Bar Café, which already did not sound like a typical rustic, local name around these outskirts of Natal. We discovered a lovely courtyard and veranda decorated with items from the orient and with amazing trees. The owners are Maurizio, an Italian, and his wife Neuma, an indigenous native. He is from Sardinia (land of Newton’s great-grandfather) and has lived in Rome, Prague, and Thailand, traveled to Nepal and India, and lived here for 18 years. He is responsible for the incredible variety of world music playing at the bar, as he has his own Italian radio show twice a week (via the internet). Neuma is responsible for the wonderful international menu (two minutes from our house!?!) and the incredibly happy trees and plants in the courtyard. She looks like she was painted by Gauguin and is the most elegant and sophisticated indigenous native I’ve met. The Zen Bar Café will be closed during the rainy season and ‘winter’ here, and we will miss our new friends when they leave in May for their annual four months selling Brazilian bikinis on the pricey Costa Smeralda in Sardinia.

The 4 evenings around a full moon here are very special, for the dark night ocean is transformed into a shimmering blue glow. We started out last Saturday night with dinner at Hellenus restaurant on a cliff, then signed up for a Sunday evening sunset-and-full-moon ride on a catamaran on the Potangi River in Natal. This was for 25 people with hors d’oeuves, drinks, and live music. The boat went under Natal’s new bridge to where the river begins to mix with the ocean. We were surprised once again to see such unusual food in Natal, and soon discovered that the owners had lived in the US for many years. The wife, Rossana, worked at the Brazilian Consulate in both NY and LA; the husband, Cassio – who was the percussionist alongside the guitarist-singer on the boat – worked as a musician in LA. He toured and


recorded with the huge Brazilian star, Djavan, in the ‘90’s…until a scheduled tour was suddenly canceled because the superstitious Djavan had gotten word from his Mae de Santo (fortune teller) that it was not a good time to travel! Cassio then toured and recorded primarily with an Iranian and Spanish duo from LA. Since we had already invited Mauricio and Neuma to dinner Tuesday night, we decided to ask Rossana and Cassio to join us. It turns out that Mauricio had interviewed Cassio for his radio show, and Cassio has a recording studio that makes many of the local artists’ CD’s that Mauricio sells at his bar! We had a grand evening with the just-past-full moon, loads of champagne, and our “spread” with smoked salmon, goat cheese, and wondrous jars of Trader Joes’ concoctions. Now we are invited to dinner at Rossana’s this Sunday. Such instant and marvelous friends!!

Newton has been listening to old samba songs from the 1930’s on his i-tunes. He will suddenly start to chuckle in the office and translate some of the lyrics for me:

“…I’ll kill who stole my just-washed underwear to make a dishrag. It was a present from my girlfriend…”

“…Maria Sapatão (‘big shoe’ – expression for Lesbian), by day she’s Maria, by night she’s João (John)…”

Elise recently e-mailed both Newton and me a little survey. We each independently answered the query: “Where would you rather be?” with the answer: “No where.” For all my complaints, I’d rather be here than anywhere!!

My next dispatch will be about Carnaval 2009!

Love,
Sandy

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Happy 2009 from Brazil

CHANCE

I arrived in this seaside garden no gardener.
My skill consists of trimming brown-edged leaves
Grazed by the sand and salt ‘marezia ‘ on the ocean breeze,
Or pummeled by the marezia on the ocean wind
That turns coconut palms ragged.

Depends on the season.

Unsuspecting beauties face the onslaught
Wearing this year’s latest green.
These suffragettes change their withering aspect
when I intervene,
And, first coquettishly, then with burgeoning
Defiance of ‘pot-bound’ become top-heavy matrons.

Brown ferns get hacked in half,
But turn their cheeks with graceful, pointed fronds between
This coif and the next.

Some pruning turns to ruin.
A lush bush - now a scarecrow - once a screen,
Is bemused through each veranda repast
By its own revealing ridicule.

Yellow folds of sun, lacy shadows cling
To chameleon-colored flagstones,
While black hummingbirds, the odd helicopter, ants,
Small yellow butterflies, rain – traverse the scene
Of growth and age.

I am cowed before a stringy naked limb
By the unlikely red hibiscus preening at its end -
That even the iguana spared;
I cut -
The beginning of all faith.






HAVE A BEAUTIFUL 2009!

Love,

Sandy, Newton, Elise and Jake

Monday, January 5, 2009

Brazil Dispatch 22

January 5, 2009

Just ahead of the holiday season we hit the streets for a local, early version of Carnaval. We turned the corner from the live, dancing samba and frevo groups in the street to a large avenue lined with parked cars, all blasting music from the deafening macho speakers in the open trunks. There were as many (bad) songs bludgeoning my ears as there were cars. I felt as if I were walking this gauntlet on the set of a surrealist post-apocalyptic movie (filmed in low neon).

Much more reassuring was the magical lighting of the city's gigantic Christmas tree soon after... well, the tree is actually only lights. The weather was as lovely as it gets, with a happenstance full moon quietly presiding over the ocean to complement the pyrotechnics of the tree, lit fountains, a shimmering Santa's house , and fireworks. New to me: the mayor spoke with his hand and voice in a sort of Roman oratory style...apparently a tradition in the third world, but HILARIOUS. Our eyes were watering, trying not to burst out laughing, and we still giggle about this. The mayor was thundering that Natal was the only city in the world named Natal - "Christmas" in Portuguese. The arrival of Santa on a truck-mounted sleigh with ear-splitting recorded music was simultaneous with the lovely women's choir singing Christmas carols in matching plunge-neck gowns. And in the sparkle refelected in dazzled young eyes, my Christmas spirit was officially ushered in.

Preparations for Elise and Jake's holiday arrival suffered a bit of a set-back when the ex-wife of our caretaker, Marcos, threatened to "put a bullet through the head" of our pretty two days/week maid, Lucia, if she continued to work here. Lucia and the terrorista, Suziane, had never met, but apparently Suziane found a pair of women's underwear at Marcos' house when she was in town with their two daughters that weekend, then found Lucia's number on Marcos' cell phone (for work purposes)...and got jealous and called her. Why? Mind you, since breaking up with Marcos, she already had a baby with another man (who has since abandoned them). Poor people rarely marry and divorce around here because the fees are too high. Perhaps Suziane is worried about sharing Marcos' money with someone else since he supports her and the three girls faithfully. Obviously, the innocent and terrified Lucia came to resign, her husband accompanying her for safety. She was now jobless, we were maidless, and Suziane was banished from ever appearing on our property again. Good thing she doesn't know about Marcos' fiancée in the interior. After some ups and downs, we now have a very nice, homely maid from another part of town.
Newton decided to wind tubular Christmas lights around the coconut trees on each side of our front yard - one in red and the other, green. It looked fantastic! That prompted even more Christmas spirit and made us more impatient than ever for our kids to arrive. Our local, large iguana appeared one morning soon after and started up the cocnut tree with the red lights (not on). He just clung there for the longest time staring at the red tubing, peering around to the side of the trunk to see if any path opened up there. He then very gingerly started up, licking and examining as he went. Then he plopped over onto the branches of the hibiscus bush and started eating the beautiful red blossoms in a single gulp. That's when I was no longer amused and went to shake the hibiscus branches. He returned to the tree and, after staring at the red tubing again for a long while, started up.

Elise and Jake arrived with lots of great presents and all the crucial Trader Joes items we make them schlepp down to us. We had a fantastic two weeks with them here before they went to visit their cousins in São Paulo. All of us hit Cotovelo Beach many times, as well as favorite restaurants and clubs, a boat trip, the largest cashew tree in the world, and a fun New Year's Eve at home. We joined the anonymous neighbors (recently arrived from the city to their beach houses) at midnight on the beach - everyone in white - to jump over seven waves for good luck.
Later we drove over to Ponta Negra Beach to catch a more crowded celebration. On New Year's Day we went to the beautiful Hellenus restaurant atop a cliff. It transports one in the imagination to a Greek isle with all its curving white gesso and ocean view. The fish and shrimp transported us, too!













































WATCH:
Elise loves her job at the UltraStar fan club division of Live Nation, about to end because the company is dissolving the division. Once her college graphic design internship turned into a job, she has had amazing creative control - including video shooting, editing, graphic design for websites, DVD and CD covers, plus animated Christmas cards for several rock groups' websites. She arrived here at Christmas with a show & tell of her fantastic Police DVD and Genesis CD covers, on which she is listed for credit. She traveled to various cities to videotape the Jonas Brothers and Il Divo. There are several irons in the fire by which her amazing resume will propel her to continued employment.
Jake's profession seems to circumvent the economic crisis. We had such a fun evening at a bar here called the Bada Bing (owned by a very sweet Dutch guy who's a Soprano's fan), where a friendly, international Texas Hold'em tournament takes place (in English) every Tuesday and Friday. Jake took till 3:30am to win the damn thing, but then picked up the tab for the entire family with part of his winnings. He has had an excellent year in Texas Hold'em, earning 1,000,000 playing points on his poker site to achieve Supernova Elite status. This will send him for free to two live
tournaments this year: Monte Carlo and again to the World Series of Poker in Las Vegas. He is quite studious about the whole thing and puts his math talent to lucrative use.
We will continue our time with our nascent-adult children next July when we travel to the US. What a relief to inch away from the blame/glory parent role. Oh! They were born that way already. I think I can see that now.
Love,
Sandy
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