from Sandy Needham

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Maine Dispatch

June 24, 2008

Our first state for the day was New Jersey. We were staying next to the George Washington Bridge. New York was next, to pick up Elise, and then Connecticut and Rhode Island. We were on our way to the charming town of Kennebunkport, Maine (it's so much more than just the Bush family complex). Oh, just the heady feel of a family vacation with the four of us together again propelled us. We had each put one hour of our music favorites on iPod’s, so were toolin’ along and singin’ in Jake's car.

Newton noticed that even though the date was 5/2008, the car inspection sticker said 4/2008 in giant numbers on the windshield – visible, we imagined, from every police car. So Jake had missed the inspection expiration date by less than a month. This was his first year on his own with his own car. We would get an inspection once we hit Massachusetts. Newton noticed that it was also time to change the oil, so we’d do both. Once the oil was changed in a small southern Massachusetts town, the nice man said that he was unable to do the inspection because he could not get the registration to come up on the computer. Jake made some calls and found out that his registration was invalidated since January because of non-payment of insurance. Then he saw that the insurance card in the glove compartment reflected his roommate’s old address, which he had used upon arriving in Boston and buying a car. No forwarding address had been left for the post office, so once Jake paid the first half of his insurance, the subsequent bill did not reach him, and he did not think of it. This meant that he needed new insurance pronto, so we hightailed it to the nearest insurance office before closing time and he bought some. Now we just needed valid registration, valid plates and an inspection. It was 5:00pm. SO we drove through Massachusetts, New Hampshire and on to our hotel in Maine that evening, observing the speed limit like people possessed. The next morning Newton and Jake looked on the internet for the nearest Massachusetts town with a Department of Motor Vehicles and drove there, ever so gingerly. New Hampshire has only five miles of shoreline, so this Massachusetts town was just an hour away from Kennebunkport. Elise and I had a great morning in the hotel’s outdoor hot tub and indoor pool, and we were all four together again in time to drive legally to lunch. Lucky Jake had not been pulled over and thrown in jail or anything since January!

There is a lovely, quiet winding road along the shore into Kennebunkport. The colonial houses, shops and hotels have a very spare and ship-shape feel, like the boats in the interspersed marinas. The weather was pleasant, cool at night; some clouds, some rain and some sun. We almost missed dinner two nights in a row with our impossibly night-owl habits. The place pretty well closes up by 9:00pm. We spotted a lively bar in town called “Big Fish,” and found out to our heart’s delight that they were not just serving food, but gourmet macaroni and cheese, burgers and oysters! Jackpot!

Next day was hiking day. We started along the shore with rock scrambling. This strip starts across a small bay from the, ahem, Bush estate, and follows along for some time with varying degrees of challenge. Jake prefers scrambling, Elise prefers sun bathing. Then we drove to a local monastery with flat trails through woods beside a marina on the river. The day was sunny, and we had cheeses, olives and salami from the great Harlem Fairway grocery by Elise’s apartment and red wine from the small strip of New Hampshire shore…no tax. We started a Hearts game, as Jake is usually known to travel with a deck of cards. I say started, because it did go on into the next morning, disintegrating at check-out time with no victors. There was a fantastic ‘Mother’s Day’ lobster dinner by the sea in there, as well.

We caught a boat ride on a lobster boat with a tour of the coast and a successful attempt to catch a couple of lobsters. The very charming old man who hosted explained everything about how lobster trapping works in the state. Even though diehard vegetarian, Jake, remained at the back of the boat for this part, I was happy to report to him that the traps are designed with a small window for smaller lobsters to escape and a biodegradable lock on a door to allow all the lobsters out after two days, should the line to the trap break.

Now we headed back to Boston to get Jake and his car home. We all four stayed at his apartment that night with his three very friendly roommates, after seeing the new ‘Indiana Jones’ movie and eating sushi at Jake’s favorite restaurant. It was time for Jake to get back on the poker bandwagon and prepare for his trip to the big Las Vegas Texas Hold’em tournament in July. He drove us at an ungodly hour the next morning to catch a Greyhound from South Station to Port Authority in Manhattan. There we caught the airport shuttle bus to Newark Airport to pick up our rental car for the rest of the NY/NJ stay. Our next stop with Elise: my sister Donna’s in Lawrenceville, New Jersey.

Love,
Sandy

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Graduation Dispatch

June 22, 2008

Elise finished college (Fashion Institute of Technology in Manhattan) with a flourish. The last day before graduation she had a final and a portfolio review by Graphic Design industry professionals. We got to see her – looking all professional – at the review. Her portfolio is amazing, as her five reviewers agreed. Here are some of her fellow graduates:















Jake had taken the red-eye into Newark that morning after participating in the spring revelries at UC San Diego, arriving within minutes of our flight from Sao Paulo. We were so happy to see our boy and use his car!

Elise’s senior project on consumerism was selected for the Senior Show. Besides writing the thesis, she photographed aisles and aisles of products and assembled them into this wonderful rectangular graphic. Then she made a map of the globe with cut-up credit cards and a flipbook of people shopping.













The graduation ceremony the next morning at Radio City Music Hall opened with the big Wurlitzer blasting out “Pomp and Circumstance.” We looked down from the balcony on the tops of mortar boards decorated with various designs, glitter, and even a room setting of miniature furniture (an Interior Design major, no doubt). There were too many graduates to call out individual names, so each major was called to rise as a group for the bestowal of degrees (Fashion Design, Textile Surface Design, Textile Restoration, Fine Art, Photography, Accessory Design, Art History, Package Design, Graphic Design, Toy Design, to name a few). This all took place against the backdrop of that exquisite Deco palace.









Elise had barely slept for days, but was radiant at our celebratory lunch at a nearby Greek restaurant. She was ready for a relaxing family trip to Maine the next day, after a semester of projects, finals, waitressing and her internship that became a job.

You can bet there’s more coming soon –

Love,
Sandy

Monday, May 12, 2008

Brazil Dispatch 18

May 12, 2008

The rainy season has brought some of the brightest, clearest days of the year, now that alternating deluges have subsided in favor of the occasional cloudy day and shower. The humid heat and lack of breeze do sometimes make us gasp for breath much more than we did in January at the height of summer.

The ever-changing colors and cloud configurations of the ocean view still offer surprises. Walking back late afternoon from the falesias – cliffs of sand – at the end of our beach with my friend Ann Scott from Florida, I witnessed the most dramatic, surreal color and lighting to date: behind us was a patch of bright, clear sky, overhead a hovering, darkening blue-grey cover, and ahead of us a backdrop of solid, deep indigo blue. This was still during daylight. The red-orange falesias and off-white dunes were illuminated by the clear light behind us, so they stood out against this indigo backdrop like a stagecraft trick. The waves were breaking into a coke bottle green I had never seen, and the tide was high, so the mounting force driving towards our dwindling path of sand only added to the urgency of the exaggerated, touched-up post card visuals. I looked back as we climbed to the road and saw an ocean that was a black and white photograph – just as surreal as the super-colors ahead of us. Amazingly, we only caught the odd drop of rain upon entering our gate, and the expected indigo downpour never happened.

Newton finally got his custom surf board, then finally was able to try it out when a pain in his shoulder improved. He likes to take it out, sometimes even briefly before weekday lunches, and ride the Cotovelo Beach waves. These are ideal for practice, and he is doing well. I like to call him “Surfer Boy.”

Newton is reading Robert Graves’ I, Claudius. He devised a family tree for the Roman ruling family online so he could keep track of how Livia’s poisoned victims were related to her. I left the haunting, heightened world of Van Gogh’s letters to his brother reluctantly. I could follow the written accounts of his paintings with visuals at the excellent website, http://www.vggalery.com/, where I could also read some of Theo’s letters back. I read Henry James’ Portrait of a Lady in a large print edition I acquired inadvertently, which kept me in a startled state with those big letters. I have borrowed a short stack of questionable back-up books from a British neighbor named Stewart. He is a kindly old goat with a pretty, young Brazilian girlfriend who, he explained endearingly in a voice that could belong to an old woman in a BBC sitcom, is the same age as his daughter. He mostly reads British romance novels set in the north country, but I just finished a passable mystery paperback from the ‘90’s. I will soon have a new reading supply from Amazon to pick up at my Mother’s on our upcoming US trip.

We took the leap of faith and cut back our profusely flowering bushes, which were getting too stringy. After the disconcerting phase where the stumps mocked our recklessness, our bushes burst forth and reveled in the plant paradise of the rainy season. Not only do they get plenty of water and sun, but the rain washes away the sand/salt maresia that can damage the leaves. Faith is good.

The hummingbirds rarely rest around here, but I did spy on one who came to rest his wings while on a branch below the upstairs window. How tiny, pointy and sleek he was! A little blackbird couple, totally out of early Disney, flew around me in a heart-shaped double flight pattern while I was sitting under a coconut tree! Favorite recent sighting: an upward pointing crescent moon visible out the bedroom window from my bed. I realized, as clouds of varying densities drifted by and finally parted, that I was looking at the smile on the Cheshire Cat! This 'crescent moon as smile' or eventual 'half moon as boat' phenomenon happens near the equator only. (I always think of the Eugene Field poem and song, "Wynken, Blynken and Nod" in their sky boat!)



This local restaurant sign is an example of the marketing idiosyncrasies of the Northeast. The translation is, “You ate, you died.”




We went to the theater to see the “Clowns of Shakespeare” troupe perform Much Ado About Nothing (Muito Barulho sobre Quase Nada).The formidable keyboardist from our favorite band here, Mad Dogs, has a day job as an actor! He was hilarious along with the whole cast, all of whom could play several instruments, sing, dance, AND act!

We will take off for the US this weekend. Elise is graduating from the Fashion Institute of Technology in graphic design on May 20th. The ceremony will take place at Radio City Music Hall. She is currently employed by the rock-n-roll promotion company where she interned this semester. Jake will join us from Boston and we will drive his car up to Maine for a short vacation together. After the chance to see family and friends around NY and NJ, Newton and I will visit my mother in Tulsa. Then Newton will fly to a trade show in California before we rendezvous back in Natal. I imagine I will not spare you from hearing all about it!

It looks like it’s time to remind all of you again that I need to hear about any tiny vignette or story from YOUR lives. Nothing is too mundane or trivial in my eyes. And, you’ll remember, you could end up quoted in a dispatch! No need to hesitate because of our traveling…I am ready to add to my collection immediately!

Love,
Sandy


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